Goal Clarity/Balance Work , Life, Family/Earning The Money

You Deserve/Breaking Through Barriers

 

Looking for a job is so frustrating that I am barely holding myself together. My self -confidence is gone! I feel like I am not able to do anything. Like my capabilities vanished into thin air! I am constantly checking my phone for a possible message from an employer...

By the way I graduated with bachelor degree in psychology, so what? Right, so what! Still those expectations from the employers are taken strait from the sky! After reading what they want me to do, I feel like I am not able to proceed with the simplest task. Uff!

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And the new way of applying... nothing personal everything online... I feel like a machine myself! True, I am the older generation, but doesn't that feels better when you actually see the other face and talk to her about self? I think it does. I know you probably will say that eventually you'll talk to a person or even more than one...But that is the next step the first step is actually taken from me because I do not have chance to choose the employer myself; only they choose me by picking my resume from their data base on the computer.

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So, truthfully who is actually putting only the truth on their resumes? I do, maybe that is why I am not the chosen one! LOL So, really isn't that lame for the employer to base their picks on the lie? (Not everything has to be lie maybe stretched a little) And if we put only the truth on this resume of ours are we all so self-confident, leaders, positive, conscientious, friendly, open minded, respectful...etc. jeez my stomach is turning from all of this! I am sick of this! Just go to any job work there  a little and you will find for sure some people who are not the perfect ones...(I wonder what they put on their resumes?) lol

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Another thing I was wondering also, how is that possible that I have so much eagerness, love, and power to help others and those capabilities are wasted by waiting for the employer to call me... Unbelievable what this new age thing (computer) did to us! Everything is so computerized now that if the energy will be shot down we are "gone with the wind" with it! (I know we also have some positive sides of it) Yep

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Yes, I am using my computer also and many sites where I put myself out there with hope of finding a way to live my life; and you know what? I am also not happy with the outcome, because whenever I got some interesting offer then hidden agenda comes up: pay first then maybe something will show up for you! How nice! So please, write an article, but first pay for a year of subscription or rather its called an advertisement for your business online. So, I have to work on my ideas, write them, and the pay for them too! Or another deal: make your own movies with professional filmmaker, pay for it to be made, work on it, then simply send it to us and we will put it on our sides where others will have to pay also to see those movies of mine...nice, nice...Isn't that behavior/business called exploitation of others?

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 All those questions and more are in your heads, I know that, I had them too, believe it or not.Therefore, I can easily relate to those thoughts, and help you out, strait from my experience! You can break those barriers and move ahead in your life!